it was kinda weird seeing my one ex there. i had actually thought about her a few days before... wondered how she was doing and stuff like that. she seemed to be happy which is a good thing. i was a little harsh when i broke up with her, but i was tired of her using me and i thought that someone else (although i had no idea who) would treat me better. a somewhat silly reason, i guess. the funny thing is though, i could have easily worked on it with her, tried to make things better... but i didnt want to put in the effort. hell, i was scared to put in the effort.
i think i am too tired of the whole dating thing to care anymore. i am also not in the mood to put the time in required to truly make a good relationship because frankly it doesnt make sense. i am graduating in may and moving far away... why bother working really hard to make something work that will just be torn apart and destroyed when i move away? it seems silly to say the least.
maybe this all means something. looking back at my past relationships, i realize that a lot of time... i just run away. will i ever truly commit to someone? will i ever spend the time to make a relationship work? i think so, but i dont think that time is now. once i am settled, out of school.. in a steady job... then, i will put in the effort. at that time, i will have a reason to. i am too afraid of pouring my heart and soul into something, for it to end because of me moving away for work or whatever. i wont let myself get hurt like that.
there were some good points to tonight though. i was hanging out with friends and that is always good. for some reason though, it just felt a little empty... a little off. i also ran into Suzie... who I hadnt seen in a long time (over a year). we used to talk all the time and i miss that. she is a cool girl. i had to cut our catching up short though, because my friends were leaving. i emailed her though, and told her to drop me a line when she had some spare time and we could finish catching up. it was nice seeing her again.
oh, while i was at the bar... oasis' wonderwall came on. jem asked "what the hell is a wonderwall anyway?" i scared myself in a way with my response. my answer was, "it is that one person in the world that makes it possible for you to let your guard down and still feel protected, still feel safe." i am not sure if oasis meant this or not in there song, but maybe they did. regardless, i want my wonderwall. :(
so now, i contemplate what i want to do at the moment. should i watch tv or a movie here? should i continue typing? should i go over to jem's and watch a movie? should i go to sleep? hrm.
bleh. too much thinking.
i think i will go numb my mind with some tv or a movie and then i will come back, think some more... maybe write some more... and listen to jem's cd finally. wish me luck.