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Sep. 29th, 2003 | 01:02 am

In the next two weeks, i plan on tackling the following things about me:




  • make good on all my promises to her

  • be more straight-up

  • lose a few pounds

  • work out more (situps primarily)

  • give space naturally

  • be more considerate/understanding overall

  • stay focused on the end goal and not on the little tangents

  • stop trying to force discussion and instead let it roll for another day

  • be true to myself

  • let things happen dont try to always be in control

  • be completely up front, no dilly-dallying.

  • shave each day (the stubble made her turn red.. sensitive skin)

  • take better care of myself, stop neglecting things in general





in 2 weeks, i will post details on each. this list may be added to. wish me luck.

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CAPTAIN JACK SPARROW

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from: sumshadychick
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 04:26 am (UTC)
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:)
good luck with that

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Smoke Damage

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from: smokedamage
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 05:09 am (UTC)
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hmm.

courage and strength!

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from: spydrwomn
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 06:57 am (UTC)
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this sounds more like you are on the right path and more like yourself! that is a good thing.

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~S.t.é.p.h.a.n.i.e~

you can do it

from: stefne2983
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 07:29 am (UTC)
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Strength and honour
only you can take care of yourself
and make sure you do things like that for you
cause if things fall apart and you did them for other ppl, you won't feel satisfied

good luck

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from: howlovelyyouare
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 10:04 am (UTC)
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she should've accepted you for who you are...not who she wanted you to be.

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Tim

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from: visions
date: Sep. 30th, 2003 10:11 pm (UTC)
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we had differences, and she is still a great person.

the same should be said about me, i should have accepted some of the things about her that i didnt.

if anything, i am as much to blame as she is... if not more.

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Ambrosia

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from: kali68
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 10:22 am (UTC)
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I wish you the very best. It can be done.

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LilOne

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from: kittn
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 02:39 pm (UTC)
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Ok .. anyway... I think it's great that you want to change things.. but are they for the right reasons?
When you love someone you see the good and the bad, no one is perfect or even close. Falling in love is something you do with little choice. Like tripping over a rock. your emotions are the things that make that decision for you. Being In love and loving someone takes work and the ability to overlook little things in the light that you know the person you are with is better that the small(or sometimes big) flaws they have and being willing to work on those flaws together.
make sense?
always
Rhy

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Tim

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from: visions
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 06:25 pm (UTC)
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yeah, i am doing them to be a better person in the end. nothing ever wrong with that.

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LilOne

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from: kittn
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 06:29 pm (UTC)
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As long as you do them with the intention that it will make you who YOU want to be and not who she wants you to be. Everyone has issues ... trust me, read my journal and you will see... i have more than my share. But the best lesson I ever learned is that... Somethings are my problem... others.. even though I carry them don't belong to me.
always
Rhy

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lolsmite

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from: scarreddreamer
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 03:04 pm (UTC)
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be true to myself
Why isn't this one at the top..?

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Tim

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from: visions
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 06:25 pm (UTC)
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because it wasnt listed much in priority after the first few.

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lolsmite

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from: scarreddreamer
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 06:53 pm (UTC)
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I understand.. I just have a hard time seeing how anyone can do anything of the rest until being tru to oneself. [shrugs] Everyone is different, though.

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Cris

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from: undecisiveone
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 04:58 pm (UTC)
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Very interesting list..

How many of them are really for you? *(And if they all are .. then good for you.)*

I see a few of those that I would put on my list, if I were to make one .. (the sit-ups, losing weight)

I wish you the best of luck .. If you need anything .. Like I said before, I am here.

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MidnightPenguin

situps eh?

from: midnightpenguin
date: Sep. 29th, 2003 10:18 pm (UTC)
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If I remember right, I'm pretty sure you don't have to do more situps for those abs of yours. *grin*

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Tim

Re: situps eh?

from: visions
date: Sep. 30th, 2003 10:11 pm (UTC)
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eh. they could always be better... i guess you would be a better judge of that than i though?

it is rare for someone to truly be satisfied with every aspect of themselves.

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