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Jun. 15th, 2002 | 04:59 pm

General description of this temperament:


  • Place a high value on cooperation from others and are most willing to cooperate themselves

  • When ENFJs find that their position or beliefs are not comprehended or accepted, they are surprised, puzzled and sometimes hurt.

  • Particularly adept when communicating face-to-face as opposed to communicating in writing

  • Intuition tends to be well developed

  • Excellent companions and mates. They are deeply devoted to their children.

  • Tend not to be domineering to either children or a mate

  • Even tempered.

  • Like to have things settled and organized.

  • Very much at home in complex situations which require the juggling of much data.

  • Motivating people to do something they may not initially have wanted to do.

  • Highly skilled in understanding other's needs and motivations

  • Capacity to size up a situation intuitively.

  • In a very caring and concerned way, say just the right thing.

  • Can become depressed, wounded, even bitter, if their ideas are met with resistance.

  • They take conflict or rejection very personally.

  • They tend to carry a grudge against individuals or groups involved.(Even when the other side had only intended to raise some valid questions).

  • May seem superficial because of their smooth and glib way with words.

  • Want a happy and affirming relationship.

  • Parenting is a responsibility and a pleasure

  • Negative behavior often makes an ENFJ parent feel like a failure

  • When harmony prevails, the living style of the ENFJ is lively and fun.

  • Drawn to careers that serve others with minimal potential for interpersonal conflict.

  • Work that involves too many details, abundance of paperwork, too much time alone will be boring if not stressful.

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lost&found

DEAR TIMOTHY

from: imperfect_gurl
date: Jun. 15th, 2002 03:33 pm (UTC)
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kyle told me that someone was telling you **** about what we thought about you. is this true? i hope you don't believe it. we were talking about it. i hope you know that we do NOT hate you. i guess i don't know what was said but if you want to talk about it let me know.

sincerly, nicole

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Tim

Re: DEAR TIMOTHY

from: visions
date: Jun. 15th, 2002 03:53 pm (UTC)
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eh. it's all relative. i am not going to worry about it. if you want to talk, you have my number.

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. . . .hey. . . .

from: xhopesaresohigh
date: Jun. 19th, 2002 09:39 am (UTC)
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hey,
Do you have a LJ code I can use to invite a friend?
Carly

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myers briggs!

from: fishie01
date: Nov. 14th, 2002 01:30 am (UTC)
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so i'm an ESFP. @ least @ the moment. for some reason this thing doesn't seem to stay stable. people change i guess. I know its not supposed to- but mine has. so can we still get along ;-)we got 2 out of 4 the same. i'm not sure if that's good or bad.. or just... how it is. i hope we do get along . . .

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