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Apr. 18th, 2002 | 10:32 am

what is more important in life... happiness or comfort? what do you do when there is comfort that causes you pain? what about when there is happiness that causes you discomfort?

how much pain do you put up with? how much is too much? does it matter? i guess it does... but how much?

pains. sharp stabbing pains.

fall on me rain. clear me of the pain. wash over me. whisk me away.

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from: hottitotti468
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 10:05 am (UTC)
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::hugz::

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Tim

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from: visions
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 09:57 pm (UTC)
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hey sweetie.

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Joy Is  Up To You

hmm

from: joyfull
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 10:14 am (UTC)
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pain is NOT comfort. I would reinvestigate where the comfort is coming from.. memories perhaps?

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Tim

Re: hmm

from: visions
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 09:57 pm (UTC)
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comfort brings closeness.. closeness has a reaction of her pushing me away, which causes pain.

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Beth

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from: elisafyre
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 11:53 am (UTC)
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When what is comfort becomes painful, that makes it uncomfortable. When that happens, you let go or get used to it. Again, good luck amigo.

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Tim

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from: visions
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 09:58 pm (UTC)
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yeah, and the minute i am thinking about letting go, comfort comes back... followed by pain... and the whole process repeats. :-\

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Beth

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from: elisafyre
date: Apr. 19th, 2002 09:54 am (UTC)
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That's not a healthy or fun place to be.

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from: sigmasarah
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 12:03 pm (UTC)
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Comfort that causes you pain is NOT comfort. Likewise, real happiness dosen't cause you discomfort either.
I think you know what is best to do in this situation. And the longer you wait to do something, the harder it is.
You shouldn't sacrifice your well-being and happiness. It's not worth it for ANYONE. It's time for you to get off the roller coaster and BE HAPPY!!!

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Tim

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from: visions
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 10:02 pm (UTC)
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i think i just expect too much at times though? she isnt perfect, she isnt exactly what i want in a gf, she isnt always considerate... but i like her for who she is, that is all that should matter.

i just need more patience, i think.

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the septenary

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from: diapholom
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 09:58 pm (UTC)
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pain is a reminder that we're still alive

but you're a very impressive person, tim
so to whom much is given
much pain is required *slaps your bum*

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jenne

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from: hellloitslate
date: Apr. 18th, 2002 10:39 pm (UTC)
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comfortable isn't always good...happiness is the most important. so as long as you're happy..that's all that matters.

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Christina

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from: kungfuey23
date: Apr. 19th, 2002 01:28 am (UTC)
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Pain can sometimes bring people closer together but it really depends on the situations=) hope things get better

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Tony

comfort vs happiness

from: sylvaris
date: Apr. 19th, 2002 03:01 am (UTC)
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happiness is an emotional state of being and most peoples emotions are moved to easily there are many above the line good feelings that can be enjoyed... the note is on how many and how often are you below the line and what is causing you to be there...
comfort... emotional comfort is always dependant on your emotional state of being so by default if your emotions are low then your comfort level will also be low and again how often does that occur strenght of character is also about knowing when enough is enough and being able to stand up for your self and that includes emotionally.... in a relationship either you are both their for each other or its a onesided relationship... which isn't a relationship at all... its a crutch...
besides your cute and from what i've seen of your lj very sweet.. i'm sure you could find someone else... if i was a girl or you were bi i'd date you in a heart beat
Love and Blessings
Sylvan Cat

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